Betty J. Steffen, 80, of Bluffton, died at 2:40 p.m. Monday, Nov. 9, 2009, at Christian Care Retirement Center. Mrs. Steffen was born in Wells County on June 17, 1929, to Jacob J. and Elizabeth (Aeschliman) Graber. She married Harry Steffen in Bluffton on June 11, 1950; he survives. A 1947 graduate of Bluffton High School, Mrs. Steffen was a housewife and also a secretary at Star Engineering for 25 years. She was a member of the Apostolic Christian Church. Surviving relatives also include two sons, Keith (Kay) Steffen and Tom (Lyn) Steffen, both of Bluffton; three daughters, Cyndee (Dean) Fiechter, Beth (Kevin) Aschliman and Lori (Todd) Reimschisel, all of Bluffton; a sister, Pauline Kaehr of Decatur; and 18 grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren. Mrs. Steffen was preceded in death by a brother, Glenn Graber. Calling will be from 6 to 8 p.m. Tuesday and from 1 to 8 p.m. Wednesday at the Goodwin Memorial Chapel in Bluffton, and from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. Thursday at the Apostolic Christian Church East. Funeral services will be at 10:30 a.m. Thursday at the church with Nile Bucher and John Reinhard officiating. Burial will be in the Apostolic Christian Cemetery. Memorials may be made to the Christian Care Retirement Community.